what's up with love??

Ever wonder whether the phrase 七年之痒 is true and applies to every man and woman in a relationship? Though i would say it is usually applied to guys.
What is left after the passion and fire had died down? Friend of mine once ask me:" how do you maintain a relationship for almost 5 years now? " My answer is...i dun noe? Guess it's how two people keep the water boiling at room temperature after the passion and 热恋期 is over. It takes effort and fate i would say. Both parties must still carry feelings for the other.

Why do guys say "i need time...i need to think about it....i'm not sure...y can't u understand ME?!" after being with a girl for more than 6 years. So what is the factor that determine whether a relationship would last for only months or for years? When are you ever sure that this one is the right one?
How do you know whether you are going out and do the same things you do on a date because you still love each other or is it just habit?It's really a tough question isn't it.
What's the point of keeping in contact...but let me think about it. Hmmm...hey i'm not sure if i still have feelings for you! And after a girl waits for a month or two...they either loose contact or the guy may have the courage to say:"i've really thought it through...i dun think i love you anymore, so let's break up." If you have much hesitation and second thoughts on your relationship, is it still worth to stay in that relationship?
One last question- how is it that people can pretend that nothing had happened before and continue to talk to a girl and hope that they do the same thing too without resolving the issue?

So really - WHAT'S UP WITH LOVE? there's hardly a standard answer to these question is there?

梁静如 曹格 PK

曹格：你有堅持的事情
我也有我的個性
這次不讓你 call我兄弟飆歌去
茹: 跟兩個人有關係
你卻一個人決定
情緒谷底 約好姊妹喝香檳
格: 最恨別人對我不相信
茹: 我嚮往的親密是一起做決定
格: 干涉太多是囚禁
茹: 溝通太少是疏離
合: 愛有千百萬種定義
茹: 三天不聯絡 和解要被動
格: 不談對錯 假裝沒冷戰過
合: 想在愛裏當主key 要搶到麥克風
茹: 三天淚狂流 殘局你來收
格: 雖然心疼 不能攤手低頭
合: 心思拉扯中 PK寂寞